My husband Mat is travelling at the moment, and whenever he does, I’m reminded how lucky I am to have a partner in kid-raising, dinner-making, dishes-doing, bill-paying crime. One of my dear friends was a single parent during those first few challenging years, and I still have no idea how she managed. Well actually I suspect the support of a wonderful mum, family and good friends were kind of crucial. That old saying “It takes a village to raise a child” is so relevant, not just for raising children, but just for being a human. Social connection and support is so important – feeling valued and loved, sharing experiences, having someone you can reach out to for advice, and just sometimes having a good whinge.
So without my main man this week, I’m left with a bit of a void, but I’m encouraging myself to use the time to focus on those other social connections with the rest of my ‘village’. It’s easy to fall into a routine and especially with the littles and work and life – it gets busy! But cake always helps to bring people together. Especially this one 🙂
This is the perfect cake to serve mid morning or afternoon to remind yourself that life is ace. It is light enough to leave you feeling good afterwards, but dense enough to carry some real nutrition. N.B. I’m just not a fan of sponge. There, I said it. I’m sorry to all the sponge cake lovers, but I feel like it’s just eating air. And although air is great, when I crave cake, I want something a little more dense and filling.
This cake is also gluten free, using buckwheat flour as the main flour which I love. It’s high in protein and fibre, and also has …